Don’t Know What You Want? Follow These 10 Steps To Gain Clarity!

There were times in my life I was totally confused what I wanted out of life. Doubting lots of things, taking lots of new things on but never really being happy with the choices that I made.  Lack of clarity can give us overwhelm, can cause procrastination and indecisiveness. It's like you have no direction of where your life is heading. It caused me to become depressed and anxious. Until I made the decision to take control of it. When I made that decision it was like the world was opening up to me. Although I didn't have any clarity at first, changing my attitude towards not knowing what I wanted, opened up the path to getting all the clarity I needed.  The Universe showed me how to gain that clarity, step by step. When you have clarity in your life you get a sense of direction and purpose. You feel alive, excited and meaningful in your life. You feel you matter. You feel a sense of purpose, a deep feeling that connects you to who you are and why you're here on earth Okay, so let's get into this. Be 100% Responsible.  Responsible for your journey towards clarity. Make the decision to gain clarity and put in all your effort to get there. The only one who can give you clarity is YOU. Not someone else. You can have two options: decide you remain unclear, or decide to take effort to become clear and gain clarity. When I made the decision to change my life, although I didn't know what I wanted or how, I felt an immediate release of anxiousness. I knew I was the one responsible for gaining clarity. Take Action. Without action towards gaining clarity and direction is step number 2. Without proper action, you will stay where you are. What are ways for you to find clarity? Do you need to talk to people, read books or be still? One of the things I have been doing (and still do when I feel I need some clarity) is being still and meditate. I ask my mind to come up with answers when I'm still. Not when I'm running around in circles running errands. Experiment. Try new things, be creative. Start a hobby. This will all help you to gain clarity of what you want and what you don't want. Stop Distracting Yourself. One way to struggle with finding clarity...